Category: Thoughts


Entitlement…

Entitlement is a frame of mind, an emotional position, that a person takes that excuses them to a myriad of behaviors. Entitlement is one of the most crippling issues facing America today. Entitlement is demanding something for nothing and permitting laziness. Entitlement tells you that you deserve what others have because you’re just as important. Entitlement lies to you, distracting you with greed and feelings of jealousy. Entitlement anchors you to failure and prohibits you from realizing true potential and success. Entitlement can hide behind the guise of equality, yet they hold nothing in common. Entitlement brings dissension.

However, entitlement can be defeated and overcome. There is a healthy frame of mind and attitude that fits perfectly in place of entitlement. The answer to overcoming entitlement is humility.

Humility is finding peace with who you are, what you can do and then doing it with perseverance. Humility is accepting that others are more important than you. Humility is based on love and care for others. Humility believes that you don’t deserve what you have, but you are grateful for all of it. Humility honors others, rejoices in their success and creates unity around you when you embrace it fully. Humility breeds perseverance in the face of adversity because it is rooted in truth.

At some point, entitlement became an acceptable frame of mind, poisoning the entrepreneurial spirit of America. The repercussion of entitlement can be seen in legal policy and social behavior from ballot measures that want to tax the wealthy so they pay their “fair share,” to the employee who demands a promotion on the basis of seniority. Without unveiling entitlement for what it is (a disease that is keeping America weak in times of economic unease), we cannot join together and pull out of this local and national crisis.

To the professionals out there please hear this: No one owes us anything. Our country, our states and our cities were built with hard work and perseverance. Ingenuity and a desire for profitability lead to great changes that have shaped our world. Capital markets, net profit, fiscal success are all great goals to pursue and are not evil as entitlement would lead you to believe. The leaders whom you admire achieved their positions by working hard and persevering through difficult times. If you are reading this and are feeling upset by what I say, then I’m encouraged. I know from personal experience that immediate anger and offense is the first step in realizing there might be an issue.

It is to speak the truth: Entitlement is not the root cause or result of any one issue or policy, but the summation of a national mindset that has slowly become lazy and over consumptive of everything around. It is time we remember what it is to persevere. Accept the fact that only by working together and suffering together can we overcome our current situation, and humble our hearts to care about our neighbors as much as we care about ourselves.

Entitlement says let others who have more take care of the problem, but humility gladly shares the burden equally and succeeds in unity.

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New York, new place for Same Sex Marriage

Soon, hundreds of gay and lesbian couples across New York State plan to marry on Sunday, the culmination of a long battle in the Legislature and a new milestone for gay rights advocates seeking to legalize same-sex marriage around the nation.

The first marriages were scheduled to take place just after midnight in Niagara Falls, where officials planned to illuminate the famous cascade in the colors of a rainbow, and in Albany, where an eager mayor planned to marry eight gay couples.

Right now there is currently in New York City, 823 couples signed up in advance to get marriage licenses on Sunday, and many of those couples were expected to marry minutes later in city clerk’s offices across the five boroughs. Officials from more than a dozen cities and towns from Buffalo to Brookhaven said they would open their offices to issue marriage licenses on Sunday, and more than 100 judges across the state have volunteered to officiate at the couples’ weddings on the spot. This is how support should be done, on something so trvial yet such a big deal for our nation.

Thank you New York, we are one step closer to being “normal”

Source: The New York Times

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Amy Winehouse

Died at the age of 27, she was found in her London home earlier today. Police has not stated the cause yet, but with her very turbelent lifestyle only one could guess.

I loved her music such a tragic loss.

More Information: Washington Post

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This was a assignment for my GE117 Clas to right a page about myself or my past.

I always said, “Growing up pains are the facts of life.” Where is that theme song when you need it? I could use one now as I tell you that some parts of my childhood were perfectly normal. Such as my birth weight I was a 8.5 pound bouncing baby boy my and mother, who was great. As I grew older, and started school, things started to get harder. My attention in school steadily decreased to the point that I was segregated into special classes for most of my 3rd and 4th grade. My school could not determine if I had a learning disability or something deeper.

My parents did take notice of this problem and immediately enrolled me in a small enrollment Catholic School for the rest of elementary school and through Middle school. This change was beneficial, and I did develop a few friendships that carried into high school. But the religious aspect did not really take; as I got into my 7th and 8th grade years, I started exploring what religion was about. By the time I was a freshman in high school everything I had gained in the way of self image had been shattered and changed by to peer pressure and my struggles trying to find who I was. I knew I was not like other boys or rather I liked the other boys but I was not completely aware of this myself but other school patrons were which caused a lot of friction and hate.

I dropped out of High school due to the harassment that was caused. Though the school district attempted to resolve and assist in the issue with me. The harassment never stopped, I eventually got my G.E.D and now enrolled into college.

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I found this via Google news postings and found the article to be a great read, Enjoy!

Given everything your smartphone does for you now, from mapping the skies to tracking your rides and delivering your website analytics, isn’t it a bit surprising how difficult it is to buy stuff with it? Mobile commerce — like flying cars or domestic robots — is one of those promises that has long seemed just around the corner; a logical next step, but one that has receded into the future before us, like a financial mirage.

At the risk of getting fooled again, I think that’s about to change. Twitter lights up every time Apple hires an engineer with expertise in near field communication (NFC), the wireless technology that will most likely power wave-and-pay mobile systems, and Eric Schmidt showed off tap-and-pay capability in an Android phone at the Web 2.0 Summit last fall. The fastest growing smartphone platform seems determined to roll out payment capability soon, and BlackBerry and WebOS are not far behind.

So what? How will that change your life if, instead of reaching into your wallet or purse to whip out a credit card, you instead wave or tap your mobile? Here are a few thoughts on how this shift will change the way you shop.


1. It Will Make You a More Fascinating Customer


By mashing together geolocation, check-in services, mobile payments and social media, merchants and payment companies will no longer see you as an inert — if well-funded — lump of credit risk sitting at a desk, but as a story of errands, outings, activities, friends, restaurants and bars. The same device with which you check in at Chili’s and upload your party pics now becomes something like your wallet, only more fun — and with a few skeletons in the closet. Credit card companies have long pieced together bits of your charge trail, just to get to know you better and figure out what odds they should place on getting their money back. They know, for example that if you charge frequently at a home improvement center, you’re more likely to pay on time than if, for example, you suddenly start charging at bars and casinos.

Now the story gets more interesting. Let’s say your current weakness is Mexican food, and you’ve become a lunchtime regular at a burrito shop near the office. Come Saturday, if you find yourself driving past a new taco joint on Main Street, you might get a mobile notification inviting you to lunch with a half-off coupon.

If any of this sounds creepy, it might just mean you’re a few years older than the target demographic. In order to avoid alienating customers, all the companies involved in the system — from the telco, through the payment company, and on to the merchant — will want to make sure you’ve opted in to the system. In exchange for that, we can assume you’ll be getting, at the least, discounts on food and merchandise. But don’t count on it: think how many people check in on Foursquare and Gowalla with no hope or expectation of getting anything more than a colorful, 100 pixel badge.


2. Shopping Will Become Even More Social


Social shopping is big; get ready to watch it get bigger as it gets mobile. Groupon’s mobile chief Mihir Shah said in late January that 5 million Groupon iPhone and Android apps had been downloaded in the nine months they had been available. But receiving mobile coupons is only the start of something big. Now imagine if a critical mass of shoppers within a certain range of a store could trigger a bargain.

This comes on the heels of a few experiments already underway, like Foursquare-powered loyalty programs and rewards for first-time or frequent visitors. But there are new benefits, especially for merchants. Imagine if a coffee shop could offer a mobile coupon to someone who checked into its competitor just down the street. That’s a new type of marketing warfare.

This transition will stretch the bounds of what we believe is acceptable for third parties to know about us. As with any economic transaction, it comes down to what you get in return. Where people once complained that it was creepy if an Internet service knew too much about you, we may be about to crash right through that barrier to the other side where users will begin to complain if the service doesn’t know enough about them.


3. It Makes Brick-and-Mortar Digital (and Vice Versa)


When you’re in Best Buy wondering if that’s the best price you’re going to find on an Xbox Kinect, and you scan the barcode with your smartphone, it pulls up a list of online sites offering the same product for a little less and a little more. At that moment, are you shopping in the real world or shopping online? Both, of course. Retail stores know they’ve lost an advantage against online retailers when you no longer have to phone home to comparison shop against Amazon’s best offer.

Things become even more interesting when retailers begin to use the phone to bring you to their physical space. Some of the best examples are roving gourmet catering trucks that tweet not only their menu specials but their location to customers every day, so diners know where to find them and what to expect when they arrive. Geolocation ads are following close behind, inviting likely prospects to retail doorsteps just because they’re in the neighborhood. I may not have a relationship with Trione Vineyards, but ever since I met their marketing person at a party a few months ago and became Foursquare friends, I get an offer to drop by their tasting room any time I check in at a restaurant near their location. Social, just barely, but there it is.

Offers and invitations are only one way that merchants can leverage mobile traffic to make things happen. Analysis of Twitter and checkin stats increasingly provide valuable customer service data that businesses can use to plan and promote.

And of course, the mobile device as a payment tool works both ways. Intuit, Square and other companies offer simple payment hardware and software that lets sellers big and small collect payment over the mobile phone. Square and Intuit’s target audience includes very small vendors — farmers markets, house cleaners, the Etsy crowd — who may not want to fork out for full fledged credit card processing systems. And once merchants get used to collecting payments over the phone, who’s to say that mobile won’t free them from the register the same way it frees office drones from the cube? Remember the first time the Apple sales person checked you out with their iPhone, right where you stood? Beyond the cool factor of not having to line up to pay, there’s no doubt that having more floor space for merchandise rather than registers is a plus.


4. Attackers and Incumbents Will Tussle


Disruptive technologies often serve as a wedge used by attackers to work their way into markets, and not incidentally to edge incumbents out of the action. One of the most striking examples in the mobile industry been the recent dethroning of Nokia as the world’s most popular mobile platform. Nokia, which rose to the top of the market by creating sleek phones with great reception and long battery life, blinked for a moment and found that the game had suddenly changed. The playing field had shifted from practical functionality to phones with apps that can do fun things, like help you find cool places to go, shop, and share stuff with your friends. Now, Nokia must leap from a burning platform (in the words of its new CEO Stephen Elop) into icy waters if it wants to thrive again.

We’ll also see disruption among the players who handle financial transactions. Apple, Google, and Paypal — hardly lightweights as is — will begin to take more and more of the transaction pie from current transaction leaders Visa, MasterCard, and the banks. They have a ways to go on this. PayPal’s transaction volume is far behind that of Visa and MasterCard, and PayPal may never offer lines of credit. Still, the convenience of mobile payment systems baked directly into phone platforms will ultimately entice many users to put down the plastic in favor of using debit or credit systems processed through their mobile phones. The growth curve of phones running Google’s Android operating system is inspiring, and no one is dismissing Apple’s 160 million iTunes customers or Amazon’s 130 million (give or take a few million). And let’s not forget that telecoms like Verizon, AT&T, Vodafone, Telefonica and T-mobile will all want their cut of mobile commerce pie, too.

The incumbents aren’t laying down, but the momentum could be with the attackers, and given the hurdle that any mobile payment will need to cross to convince users to shift from the wallet to the phone, it seems likely that the companies already most experienced at getting us to love our devices could be more successful in getting us to use them this way.


5. Your Mobile Phone Will Become Your Identity


Since the day you unfolded your first Nokia brick phone or raised the antenna on your Motorola, mobile phone use has been a courtship. Your phone is your diary of sentimental text messages, photo albums, e-mails, your music library, fitness tracker and Angry Birds scorecard. In a very short time, it is likely to be your wallet as well, enabling purchases not only online but in the physical world. It will provide a record (no doubt filtered, processed, and synched with Quicken or Mint) of these transactions.

With all this personal data and financial transaction history, it becomes pointless to argue that your mobile number isn’t as much a proxy for your identity as, say your social security number or driver’s license is. Those government issued cards may be more official, but your mobile-financial identity is certain to be more representative of who you really are – it’s used more frequently and more closely tied with the things, places, and people you love. It’s also tied more closely with your social graph and the map of your connections and haunts, thus bridging the gap between your mobile and other online identities.

Given how important the paying mobile phone will become, we’ll want to ramp up the security on it. Passcodes to unlock, methods to find, and systems to “blow up” the data in mobile devices are already in place. Deeper levels of security are not far behind, including biometric recognition (thumbprint or retina) and methods that employ multiple levels of scrutiny – for example, your password, location, and some private bit of data. And if that’s not enough, work is underway into voice recognition and “gait analysis,” the ability to acquaint your phone with the way you walk so that if someone else tries to walk away with it, the device locks up.

David Sims covers the payment and data sectors for O’Reilly Radar and is the author of “ePayments: Emerging Platforms, Embracing Mobile and Confronting Identity.”

Original Source: Mashable

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Definition of Marriage Acts Tabled, For Now (Yay!)

Definition of Marriage Acts Tabled, For Now

Santa Fe, New Mexico –  Today, three bills seeking to degrade the dignity of New Mexico’s LGBT families were tabled in the House Consumer & Public Affairs Committee, essentially ending prospects for the bill’s passage, for now.

House Joint Resolutions 7 and 8 each proposed a Constitutional amendment to define marriage as being between one man and one woman for legal purposes in New Mexico.  HB 162 sought to prevent New Mexico from recognizing otherwise legal out-of-state marriages between persons of the same sex. All three measures were tabled in committee on a straight 3-2 party vote.

“We don’t dare call today’s development a victory, but we are clearly happy that these bills have been tabled for now.  EQNM applauds our legislators who saw this bill as an affront New Mexico’s families,” noted Todd McElroy, Los Alamos resident and EQNM Board Member. “We will remain vigilant, however, to see that these bills do not rise again in the remaining days of this session.”

Equality New Mexico and a coalition of partners organized to demonstrate to legislators the diversity of loving and committed families in New Mexico, each of which deserves the dignity which comes from the opportunity to support each other as best they know how.

Committee Chairwoman Gail Chasey (D)-Albuquerque (Nob Hill), noted that she and other members had received over 500 emails each about these bills, and hundreds of people came to the Roundhouse today to fill the committee room (they even spilled over into the hallway).

Equality New Mexico, the state’s largest equal rights advocacy organization, has supported equality under the law for all New Mexicans for more than18 years.

More information about EQNM, a non-profit organization, is available online at www.eqnm.org .

Please take a moment to say thank you to the legislators who voted to stop these bills!
Representatives Gail Chasey, Moe Maestas and Bill O’Niell all voted to table these bills.
You can find their contact information online:
http://www.nmlegis.gov/lcs/committeedisplay.aspx?CommitteeCode=HCPAC

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Committed couples, whether they are gay or straight, hope to marry for similar reasons – to publicly acknowledge their commitment to each other and to make a lifetime promise to share the joys and sorrows that life brings.

  • Marriage is one of the few times where people make a public promise of love and responsibility for each other and ask our friends and family to hold us accountable.
  • Gay and lesbian couples may seem different from straight couples, but we share similar values, like the importance of family and helping out our neighbors.
  • Same-sex couples have similar worries (as other couples), like making ends meet or the possibility of losing a job. We want to be there for one another in good times as well as in tough times.
  • Gay and lesbian couples share similar hopes and dreams, like finding that special someone to grow old with – and standing in front of friends and family to make a lifetime commitment. Marriage says “we are family” in a way that no other word does.

It’s as basic as the Golden Rule.

  • Treating others as one would want to be treated includes allowing marriage for gay couples who are truly committed to each other.
  • Treating our neighbors equally includes ensuring the free pursuit of happiness, liberty, privacy, and spirituality guaranteed to each individual under the Constitution. The U.S. Supreme Court has affirmed the freedom to marry fourteen times since 1888.

Marriage strengthens families.  It gives you the tools and the security to build a life together and to protect your family.

  • Denied the freedom to marry, gay couples and their families are deprived of literally thousands of legal and economic protections — such as hospital visitation, inheritance rights, parenting and immigration rights– as well as hundreds of state and local protections that provide a safety net to married couples.
  • At the federal level the freedom to marry provides vital protections for families, including social security and the ability to transfer of property—which can mean a surviving spouse being able to remain in the family home when a loved one has passed away.
  • There have been attempts to create marriage-like relationship systems, but they don’t work.  In many states, same-sex couples that have domestic partnerships have been barred from a dying partner’s bedside, and denied the ability to say goodbye to the person they love.  That just doesn’t happen when you’re married

Allowing committed gay and lesbian couples to get married does not change the meaning of marriage.

  • All couples who marry in the United States must get a license for a civil marriage, usually obtained at a courthouse or city hall. These civil marriages would also be available to same-sex couples.
  • Civil marriage for gay couples does not affect religious marriages, religious institutions or clergy in any way.  No religion would be forced to marry same-sex couples, or recognize same-sex marriages within the context of their religious beliefs.
  • What defines a marriage is love and commitment.

For More info go to: http://eqnm.org

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VC100 Class and more!

With hollowen around the coner, and my VC100 class going full speed been little time to reflect on changes in my life. So far its been all good, even me and the Husband have calmed down in our relationship since we married. I am looking forward to many years ahead with him.

I hope he feels the same, haha!

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Gah!

Wow… Been a few weeks since I’ve been able to blog anything. 

Nithing new in my life at them moment but one very special event coming up this month and I can’t wait!!!! :)  

I will post details once it’s very close!

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Wonders

My wonder of the day: ‘If you move and start a new what will you do with the residue of your old ways?’

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The only constant in life in change.

My thoughts for tonight.

Change. Such a small word with such a grand amount of definitions. When one hears the word change they may reach into one’s pocket and pluck out their LUCKY penny, this means you are a meaningless pawn in the thing we call a giant fish tank. The waves change, they may knock you down, but what do you do in order to become impregnated.

If you think about it this, just for even a moment. The statement made is such a hard truth and to the people who put there lives into a state of suspension to keep it from changing often cause tremendous amounts of change trying to keep it the same. Such a catch 22.


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What a Morning.

Did not sleep well last night with the drinking and then waking up to the Cats clawing or chewing on something underneath the bed  and after that kept nodding in and out of sleep, until the hubby had to get up at 8:30am. Had a fun time last night with friends always enjoy my days off especially with my Hubby he is a delight!

Today is my Monday and not looking forward to it, my supervisor is gone and we get a random temp to watch over us while she is gone. Usually when this happens all hell breaks loose with customers, but maybe this weekend will not be that bad.

 

 

P.S. My hubby can be so understanding even when he doesn’t understand. I love him.

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